Ruth Bender (nee O'Sullivan), on Oct. 16, 2015, of Flourtown. Dear wife of the late Thomas J. Mother of Thomas J. Jr., Emily B. Collins, Robert H., Alice B. Ardito, Marie Bender-Muir, Kristine B. Moore and the late Michael T. Grandmother of 16 and great grandmother of 12. A Funeral Mass will be held on Thursday at 11:00 A.M. at St. Genevieve Church, 1225 Bethlehem Pike Flourtown, PA 19031. Relatives and friends are invited to call from 9:00-11:00 A.M. at the church. Int. Holy Sepulchre Cem. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to the Brothers of Charity, C/O of Triest Hall, 7720 Doe Lane Glenside, PA 19038.